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Posted on Sat, Jun 23, 2012 : 8:47 p.m.

The Kin visit: 'Nothing matters except remembering to love and see the people you have around you'

By Danielle Arndt

Previous story: Australian band, The Kin, to play concert at Ann Arbor home for local grad recovering from surgery

Kindred spirits, powerful connections: These were the themes that resonated on the front lawn of an Ann Arbor couple’s home Saturday afternoon.

The sun was shining and sweat glistened on the brows of audience members and The Kin brothers, Australian natives Thorald and Isaac Koren.

The Kin, an eclectic rock band, traveled from New York City, minus their drummer, Friday to meet and perform for one of their biggest fans in an intimate concert Saturday at the home of Dan White and Cathy Cieglo. About 70 people were in attendance.

The Kin was called to Ann Arbor on a special mission: To honor and cheer up a courageous 2012 Pioneer High School graduate who has faced a number of physical challenges throughout his 19 years and recently missed his graduation festivities.

William McGuckin was born with multiple congenital anomalies that resulted in 23 surgeries before the age of 5. Most recently, McGuckin spent 29 days in the hospital after complications from an emergency stomach surgery that almost took his life.

The Kin’s music, in particular a song called “Waking Up Shining,” has provided encouragement for McGuckin in his recovery.

Thorald Koren said it doesn’t matter if you’re U2 or a band that not many people have heard of — “yet” — “it’s always surprising and always humbling” to learn how your music touches people’s lives.

“For us to be here, and for it to be special, is special,” he said. “And that’s why we made space for it. We’re honored to be here and grateful to be here and to see the power of what wakes us up in the morning, have an impact.”

The Kin wrote the up-tempo “Waking Up Shining” when the band was living in Los Angeles a few years ago, Isaac Koren said.

The song talks about feeling out of place and not being able to rely on one’s built up knowledge. Isaac said, in a sense, the song is about taking the bull by the horns and living each day despite feeling like you don’t belong.

The bond between The Kin and McGuckin is somewhat of a mutual exchange. McGuckin’s story has inspired the Koren brothers as well, they both said on multiple occasions.

Thorald has been dealing with his own health struggles, said Mary Byce, McGuckin’s mom. He talked about them Saturday with the gathering in Ann Arbor.

“I was thinking last night, I’ve been going through something very different, and it’s much smaller and definitely not physical. And I thought to myself, if Will can do it, well then I can do it… It was a very powerful moment for me.”

Byce and several others in the audience shed tears throughout The Kin’s performance. McGuckin had just one word for the day: Awesome.

Cieglo provides the link between The Kin and another Ann Arbor family: The family of Mariel Almendras. Mariel, who died of cancer last Thanksgiving at the age of 8, was a student in Cieglo’s Dicken Elementary class when The Kin came to play for them.

Mariel’s mom, Gemma Almendras, said a love of music helped Cieglo and her daughter share a truly special bond.

During Saturday’s performance at Cieglo’s home on Ann Arbor's west side, The Kin dedicated a song to Mariel. It was a very emotional part of the concert.

“It was so unexpected. I had no idea they were going to do that. It was such a surprise,” Almendras said. “We were here to give back love to a community that gave so much love to us when we needed it. But for The Kin to do that, was just most beautiful.”

Almendras added Cieglo and White, who orchestrated The Kin coming to play for Will, are phenomenal people whose “grand purpose” in life is forming connections. She said Cieglo is so much more than a teacher to all of her students.

“To see providential connections being made… the joy these past two days have brought to my son… there are no words for this all has meant,” Byce said, staving off tears. “Will said to me yesterday, ‘Nothing else matters except remembering to love and see the people you have around you.’ … And that’s what today has really been about.”

Staff reporter Danielle Arndt covers K-12 education for AnnArbor.com. Follow her on Twitter @DanielleArndt or email her at daniellearndt@annarbor.com.

Comments

Taylor Hulyk

Mon, Jun 25, 2012 : 2:46 p.m.

The Kin was in Ann Arbor?! I didn't even know people knew who they are! What a great event! I'm so happy that they volunteered to make the day of the McGuckin family, and that Will is doing well. Too bad they didn't stay to perform at The Ark. What a treat that would have been.

microtini

Mon, Jun 25, 2012 : 12:03 p.m.

Will graduated from the AAPS Homebuilding program this year. It's not easy to get into that program...or get through it. Congratulations, Will!

Lisa Dengiz

Sun, Jun 24, 2012 : 10:03 p.m.

Huge thanks to Cathy and Dan for hosting this incredibly meaningful, fun event and for Cathy whose love for kids and music have deeply touched the lives of your former students, their families and the entire community!

Lisa Dengiz

Sun, Jun 24, 2012 : 10:04 p.m.

I meant whose love and passion for kids and music HAS deeply.....

cathy

Sun, Jun 24, 2012 : 7:19 p.m.

We would like to thank Danielle Arndt and Jeffrey Smith for the wonderful coverage of this story. They spent a lot of time with us over the 2 days and became part of our community and celebration. cathy, dan and all

DannnyA

Sun, Jun 24, 2012 : 5:05 a.m.

The music was simply wonderful. For their beautiful hearts Thorald and Isaac are almost as inspiring as William. :-) All three are seriously incredible young men. thank you, thank you, thank you....

Lonnie

Sun, Jun 24, 2012 : 1:04 a.m.

Thanks for the photos and report. I'm glad they had great weather and lots of fun!