Gary Lillie remembered for his kindness, generosity in wake of fatal crash
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A real estate agent by profession, Gary Lillie is remembered by many in Washtenaw County for his interest in nature that set him apart from peers in the field.
For many years, Lillie worked to transform and sell vacant land. He also owned and operated Gary Lillie & Associates, Inc., a commercial real estate firm.
“He was about the only real estate person in Ann Arbor who was comfortable getting his shoes dirty,” said Lew Kidder, a former lawyer and broker who worked with Lillie for many years. “Gary was willing to get his shoes wet and tramp around through the wetlands and show people.”
Those memories are what friends and co-workers across the county are recalling after Lillie was killed Thursday night in a crash a short distance from his home in Scio Township. Washtenaw County Sheriff’s deputies said Lillie, 70, was walking on Marshall Road at around 11:30 p.m. when he was struck and killed by a suspected drunken driver.
Deputies said the 43-year-old driver left the scene, but later returned to find witnesses with Lillie.
He was expected to be arraigned at 10 a.m. Saturday on charges resulting from the crash.
Dustin Gellman, a long-time friend of Lillie’s, recalled working in his office as an assistant at the age of 17, while still attending Pioneer High School. Today, Gellman is the founder of Catylist, a real-estate marketing and research company known nationally.
Lillie sent Gellman to get his real estate license at the age of 18 and he continued working as Lillie’s apprentice through college. Lillie eventually became the first investor in Gellman's business, which today provides commercial real estate data for the entire state of Michigan.
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“From the moment we met, Gary became a father figure—a permanent fixture at vacations, holidays, graduations and weddings,” Gellman said, remembering time the two spent hiking through national parks and “visiting every corner of the U.S.”
“Gary is the most generous, kind person I have ever known, and gave me the courage to succeed in the world.”
The two also traveled together to Hill 35, where Lillie served while in Vietnam. There, Lillie was able to pray and make peace with the experiences he had, Gellman said.
Lillie become a strong advocate for veterans and went on to host a weekly AM broadcast program called Veterans Radio.
Kidder, the lawyer who worked with Lillie, sold him the property on Marshall Road where he later built his home. Kidder recalled how Lillie shared stories of wildlife he observed in the area.
He remembered seeing a video Lillie had recorded of a deer running into a cat in his backyard.
“There they were, kind of, two animals meeting each other and just a deer bending down and touching noses with a cat.”
“It was quite a wildlife refuge out there,” Kidder said, of the Marshall Road residence.
The men worked less together through the 1990s, but Lillie often came to Kidder with questions about land, asking for advice or a second opinion. When Kidder moved into a new home in Ann Arbor, Lillie appeared with several saplings to plant in the yard—one, a cherry tree that now stands almost 20 feet tall.
Randy Dickerman, who lived next door to Lillie on Marshall Road, recalled how his neighbor planted grass to bring deer into the backyard.
The handful of cats running around Lillie’s property somehow seemed to multiply through the years—a testament to his neighbor’s love for animals.
“I guess he gave out a better handout than I did,” Dickerman said. “He just enjoyed looking out his back window there and watching the wildlife.”
Funeral arrangements for Lillie are pending.
Heidi Fenton covers police and courts for AnnArbor.com. Reach her at heidifenton@annarbor.com or 734-623-4673. You also can follow her on Twitter or subscribe to AnnArbor.com's e-mail newsletters.
Comments
Ron Thierry
Sat, Aug 6, 2011 : 10:19 p.m.
at 1:51 PM on August 6, 2011 I met Gary in the Viet Nam War Era in Ann Arbor where I was getting petitions signed to find out about our POWs & MIAs. At that time Ho Chi Min and our military were not releasing any information about the MIAs even to their families. The first time Gary & I talked he booked me into the Ypsilanti VFW to tell them of our cause, and thanks to Gary that was the beginning of a successful endeavor. Our purpose was simple & our bumper stickers, posters and petitions simply stated: POWs & MIAs - Who are they, Where are they & How are they? Not too long ago Gary called me while broadcasting his Veterans Radio broadcast to recall that era. and to speak with a 6 year POW of Vietnam, veteran Jim Warner of Ypsilanti. Wow! Thank You Gary Lillie! Gary was Strong & Gentle Man of Action! He is missed... Condolences to his family & us all
Merritt Lillie
Tue, Aug 16, 2011 : 3:12 p.m.
Thank you Ron.
Jarhead
Sat, Aug 6, 2011 : 9:12 p.m.
Gary Lillie is a friend and a fellow brother in the VietNam Veterans chapter here in A2 as well as the VFW. He was a tireless worker for veterans rights and issues. He will be sorrowfully missed. SYOTOS my Brother!
andralisa
Sat, Aug 6, 2011 : 5:45 p.m.
Once again- a sober person makes a choice to drink too much, the drunk makes decision to drive, and the victim and those left behind have no choice but to suffer forever - the drunk simply sobers up and moves on.
Walter
Sat, Aug 6, 2011 : 3:23 p.m.
Gary was a fine gentleman and a pleasure to work with. He will be missed. Add contributor to the Ypsilanti Symphony Orchestra to his list of good works.
Thomas Osmond
Sat, Aug 6, 2011 : 2:21 p.m.
I will miss Gary tremendously. Having worked on Project Harbor and a few other functions with him I had only begun to know who and what Gary was all about. An honorable man who loved his country and served the veteran community well. A friendly personality is the best way to describe Gary. I am so saddened that we have lost such a contributing member of society. He's among other angels now but still railing at all the stupidity in the world. We love you Gary and we'll carry on the good fight, God bless you Brother.
Miche
Sat, Aug 6, 2011 : 11:23 a.m.
It is our loss. Dustin, my heart goes out to you.
MichU
Sat, Aug 6, 2011 : 9:06 a.m.
Rest in peace.
Wolf's Bane
Sat, Aug 6, 2011 : 2:33 a.m.
I honestly don't know what's worse; the untimely death of an upstanding citizen or our lax drunk driving laws? This is just so sad and I feel horrible for his family. Why is it always the great ones that meet such unfortunate ends?
annarbor28
Sat, Aug 6, 2011 : 2:30 a.m.
Heidi Fenton's smiling happy face next to this tragic news headline is totally inappropriate. There is no other newspaper in the country that does this kind of mocking photo next to tragic news. Very disrespectful. Cut the photos. Be happy about other types of events, not the death of this wonderful gentleman.
Merritt Lillie
Tue, Aug 16, 2011 : 3:11 p.m.
My Uncle Gary was always smiling, and he had a laugh that was infectious. In no way, as his family, did anyone find this offensive. Let us please not be trivial. The staff off this site and newspaper have been nothing but kind and caring to us.
StrongFire
Sun, Aug 7, 2011 : 3:01 a.m.
Good Lord! What ridiculous nitpicking! Perhaps they should have found a photo of Mr. Lillie where he isn't smiling? Reading about Mr. Lillie, I think he wouldn't care about the reporter's photo smiling or not.
a2zoo
Sat, Aug 6, 2011 : 1:32 p.m.
Give me a break.
Silly Sally
Sat, Aug 6, 2011 : 12:24 p.m.
So Silly. It is a picture of the article's author. Its fine to see a picture of them. Should she have a second picture where she is dressed in black and no smile? I never made the connection until I read this silly comment.
Susan Montgomery
Sat, Aug 6, 2011 : 3:37 a.m.
Agreed and not the first time this has happened. Please get more professional photos.
Matk M
Sat, Aug 6, 2011 : 12:39 a.m.
You done good, Gary. Rest in peace.